Wednesday, October 10, 2018

How to Stay Informed With Current Events Without Going Crazy

Calamities occur, countless lives are taken, terrorist attacks happen, the most outrageous rumors surround celebrities and countries and world leaders quarrel. 

The news is supposed to enlighten and inspire us, NOT constantly stress us out. Tension brought about by instant access to news has become a “normal” part of our lives.

How are we supposed to stay sensible if we are constantly being bombarded with endless negative headlines?

Here’s how to cope and stay informed when you watch the news.

 

How To Watch The News Without Going Crazy

Give Yourself a Break

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It is our responsibility as citizens to watch the news about what goes on around us. But the frequency and way we do it is completely up to us. Overconsumption of bad news is unhealthy. However, no matter how bad it is, there’s always something positive to look forward to.

If you don’t feel like dealing with political news today, then don’t. Cut yourself off when you start to feel overwhelmed. Disconnect. Meditate. Heck, sleep it off even. The world goes on; you can always watch the news later.

University of Texas–San Antonio Professor and leading researcher on the connection between media consumption and stress, Mary McNaughton-Cassill shares:

“How can we fight back against the unnecessary coarsening of our outlook that may be occurring every time we glance at one of our gadgets? … Just turn it off. That is, take a break from the news. Switch off CNN and shut down TweetDeck for awhile and don’t sleep next to your phone.”

In short, the stress isn’t worth it.

 

Be Selective About What You Read, Especially on Social Media

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Checking Twitter every half hour can become addicting, especially when updates show up by the minute. Facebook has a “see first” feature, where you can customize what you see on your feed first thing. Control yourself.

Who’s to say what we read or see hasn’t been tweaked or altered halfway through the circulation and dissemination process?

With all the fake news surrounding us, we can sometimes no longer tell what is real and what isn’t – especially if it has gone through countless reposts, retweets and shares on social media. It’s easy to fall victim to trending and viral topics when we watch the news.

You’re better off ignoring headlines you know are fake, than retorting impulsively. All you’re doing is giving these unreliable resources more exposure. Don’t be a source of “wrong” information for the gullible readers. Not everyone will be as discerning and clear-sighted as you.

On a recent article from NYMAG’s Science of Us section, writer Jesse Singal  suggests:

“One way to counteract such maladaptive clicking is to really focus on one or two issues that are most important to you, whether the environment or education or whatever else, and focus specifically on learning about and following those issues, rather than letting wave after wave of generally bad news wash over you and eventually carry you to a dark place.”

You don’t have to react to EVERY opinion that triggers you. Avoid going cursor-crazy or turning into “click-zombies”. If you must watch the news online, approach social media with caution and with clear intentions.

 

Mix Up Your Sources

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Aside from gossip, hearsay, and eavesdropped conversations, people aren’t the only source of “information”.

Choose radio commentators and DJs who hold similar beliefs as yours and quit listening to stations that make your blood boil. Nothing screams “distraction” and “accident” louder than a road raged driver cursing at the radio waves.

If you feel more aggravated than enlightened, there’s always the option of changing the channel. Switch over to channels that are calm-inducing and high on scholarly information like the Discovery Channel or National Geographic, etc. They are still a source of information and are good platforms to watch the news, after all.

Who knows? That one segment on global warming might leave you scampering for a way to book tickets to Iceland or Venice before it’s too late and Mother Nature gives up.

 

“Good News or Bad News First?”

There are news sites that veer more towards serious news, while others prioritize happy happenings.

It’s up to you whether you want to read the bad news first, and then treat yourself with the positive after. Make time to remind yourself that there is still some good left in humanity. Our world is not as “hopeless” as we think it is.

Bookmark pages that make you smile, entertain and inspire you. Hop on Boredpanda, Thought Catalog, Buzzfeed, Everyday Power Blog and any other feel-good sites.

Become a positive source of new news. There are many things to be thankful for, rather than prolonging your misery and moping around. Mitigate your desolation with gratitude and balance.

 

Act on Your Concerns

Rather than picking fights and initiating never ending open-ended debates when you watch the news, TAKE ACTION.

Lend a hand to causes you support. For example: if you’re an advocate of protecting women and children against violence, of any kind, volunteer. Worried about the environment? Start with your own home and neighborhood.

 

 

Allow yourself to sympathize with the latest headlines, be sad or shocked; we all need moments to purge our emotions. But unless you yearn to be omniscient, you don’t have to know EVERYTHING going on in the world – let alone all the details about your nation’s happenings.

New islands and planets have been spotted, one out of thousands of newborns will be the next Einstein, celebrities will start to use the limelight for greater purposes, and nations will sign peace treaties.

Rather than feeling betrayed, losing sleep and being angry, clear your head and wish for nothing but the best for humanity. There’s still plenty to look forward to when you watch the news.

Our world isn’t as bad as the headlines make it seem.  

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Tuesday, October 9, 2018

Daughter spots dad divorced from mom for 28 years on her lawn, realizes he’s mowing it for her

Statistics report that about 40 to 50 percent of marriages in the United States end up in divorce. However, just because the marriage ends does not mean that the love and respect a couple used to have for each other would end as well. In a circulating photo online, Codie LaChelle McPhate from Waller, Texas

Monday, October 8, 2018

Banksy painting self-destructs immediately after being sold for $1.4 Million

Banksy, the infamous and anonymous England-based graffiti artist rose to fame due to his satirical street art. His popular pieces of street art are not only well-known for its dark humor, but for its distinctive stenciling technique. His masterpieces are displayed on visible places like walls and self-built physical prop pieces. The anonymous artist does

How To Deal With Regret and Really Live

Regret is the action of feeling sad, remorseful, or disappointed over something one believes they have caused to happen. Regret comes down over your life like a dark cloud. If you are NOT careful, regret will steal your happiness and motivation.

Working as a therapist and life coach, regret is at the core of all mental health challenges. People regret their actions; and as a result, feel guilt and shame. That guilt and shame is a painful emotion that dictates how we appear to others and to ourselves.

The reality is that, people often feel regret without having any evidence to back up that belief. Regret can be felt even without having done something dishonorable, improper, or ridiculous.

The power of regret is in the perception of it. Something happens, you think that you have done something bad, you feel the emotion of regret coupled with guilt and shame, your body physically reacts, and then you behave in a way that causes you to withdraw or act aggressively.

With that being said, here’s how to deal with regret in a positive light:

 

 

3 Tips on How To Deal with Regret

1.) Lost opportunities equal new beginnings…

How To Deal With Regret and Really Live

When we put our heart into an opportunity, our expectations build. We anticipate that the hard work that we put into a goal will result in our desired outcome. Our desires can cause us the greatest pain. For example: think about that failed relationship that you put your all into.

You meet that King or Queen, that looks good, smells good, has a great career, is polite, and everything that you could dream of in partner. Six months in, you have been fighting everyday and received that lunch invite that has resulted in your inevitable break-up.

A break-up (like many other life-changing things that don’t pan out) leaves us with a wound. If we don’t know how to deal with regret in that new relationship, then we lose our motivation to try again. Regret in the long run can – and will – steal YOUR happiness.

The good thing is that wound heals (eventually) in ways we can’t expect. We learn so much by giving our all that we are forever changed. The person or situation happened to you for a reason. It happened so that you can learn your limits and know how to push through them—if only to help you with your next dream.

 

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2.) Be proud of your inability to fit in a label or category defined by your world…

I started my career in the corporate sector and soon realized how large organization value perfection. I was on a constant cycle of refinement and the pursuit of perfection. My job title labeled me as a specialist. Therefore, what I did had to be errorless and effortless.

When I made a mistake, it would hurt. I would make a mistake, my mind would start cycling around what I could have or should have done, my stomach would hurt, and my behavior resulted in restlessness and lost sleep. In the long run, I ended up developing health problems that threatened the functioning of my kidneys.

How To Deal With Regret and Really Live

The loss of NOT being perfect leaves us feeling shortchanged. This is a wound fueled by regret that not only hurts us, but stifles us. Get in touch with WHO you really are and re-connect to your core being. Who is _____? What makes you unique? What are your strengths?

Look past the labels. You are NOT your profession, or role you play in your community or family. You are a special individual that is bigger than a name or category.

In order to understand how to deal with regret, be aware of how it can make you uncomfortable in your own skin. You are NOT defined by your ability to be perfect. You are a collection of exclusive experiences your soul has accumulated.

Be proud of your inability to fit in a label or category defined by your world.

 

3.) A small degree of regret is healthy….

Although the experience of regret is painful, our ability to recognize that our own actions may have hurt someone – or something – is healthy. This feeling signals the need for change. Change in our expectations, perceptions, or goals.

Negative emotions provide feedback for our unconscious selves. If we get bogged down by regret, our negative thoughts and perceptions will cycle us around and stifle our ability to pursue our dreams or connect with the people closest to us.

Regret helps us be aware, so we can be sure to treat the people in our lives like grand prizes and first choices—NOT like obligations.

How To Deal With Regret and Really Live

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Being aware of our regrets helps us learn. However, when we live in them, we put up walls that prevent us from truly living. These walls cause us to live with restraints.

Understand how to deal with regret positively, so that you can love, try new things, and grow. See the internal beauty in life by seeing the internal beauty in others. You are an important puzzle piece in this thing called LIFE.

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Thursday, October 4, 2018

A traveler met a stranger and received the best advice in life

Amelia E. Barr once said, “The great difference between voyages rests not with the ships, but with the people you meet on them.” True enough, when one travels, one gives himself the opportunity to meet people and engage in a meaningful conversation with them. You’d be surprised by the immense wisdom you can learn from

Police called to a disturbance at a bank find a 92-year-old who just needed a hand

A police officer became an internet sensation after he had chosen to show understanding and compassion, and went the extra mile for an old man who was causing a disturbance at a local Bank of America. According to a post on the Facebook page of Montebello Police, officer Robert Josett and his fellow men were

In a viral Instagram post, this man is raising concern of fathers who are taking care of their kids

A man and a woman’s restroom have a lot of differences. For starters, a man’s restroom has a toilet for peeing and another toilet in case he needs to do number 2. A woman’s restroom, however, has the same toilet for doing number 1 and 2, has a vending machine for their hygienic needs, and